女生要的是能夠長久依靠的對象，自然希望身邊的男人
　　有出息。但男人要的是理想與事業能一致。

　　如果黎昱真愛她，其實當年也會把她追回來吧！
　　如果把故事套用到現實來看，嘉嘉分手時丟下的最後一
　　句話，或多或少還是有些希望他能開口說些什麼都好，
　　把自己留下來。

　　女生有時候真的會因為衝動提分手的。
　　一說出口，如果沒有台階下，就真的不可能回頭了。
　　所謂的自尊問題嘛！

　　不過他的沒開口，大概也是累了吧！
　　這個話題肯定吵過很多次，所以就疲倦了。

　　愛情的開始是激情，真的到後面理智回來了，什麼都
　　變得殘酷了。

曲∕詞：Russell Harris
編：劉志遠
唱：陳奕迅

Aren’t you glad you didn’t stay with me
Bohemian life and instability
You went off to university
And you took your love away from me
Endless nights, lovers, friends and fun
Big-City lights, your new life had begun

And as the world turns on and on
Love is lost and love is won,
Laughed and cried when we were young
You went your own way. I survived
And did you ever see everything inside of me?

So now you live your life in luxury
Double glazing, turbo washing machine
And your fiance is boring as hell
You never laugh, you’re both professionl
You know that film that I’d started to write?
It’s a box-office smash and I’m on the next flight
To get my award on TV tonight
Looking back, I think I’ve done alright

And as the world turns on and on
Love is lost and love is won,
Laughed and cried when we were young
You went your own way. I survived
And did you ever see everything inside of me?

And as the world turns on and on
Love is lost and love is won,
Laughed and cried when we were young
You went your own way. I survived
And did you ever see everything inside of me?

Oh, aren’t you glad you didn’t stay with me?
Oh, aren’t you glad you didn’t stay with me?
Oh, aren’t you glad you didn’t stay with me?
You didn’t want my love,
So aren’t you glad
Aren’t you glad
Aren’t you glad?
Aren’t you glad
Aren’t you glad
Aren’t you glad…

我這一次很罕見的沒有用歌曲來作故事的引子，但卻讓你聯想到一首歌來。所以說作者，故事和讀者的互動是很奇妙的。

如果今天可美麗過，一起過如何，
如你再不肯說便錯過。

有否到過故事的場景確是對看該篇故事有很大的影響。還記得第一次到台灣遊玩過後，重看《亦恕與珂雪》時，那些場景頓時變得生動起來。這是很有趣的事。

可以說是放開，也可以說還沒有吧！要是真的放開了，又哪用用水洗手呢。

雖然痞子蔡後來陸續寫了幾本小說，但我最喜歡的一本還是「檞寄生」(雨衣、夜玫瑰也不錯)，也許是我偏愛那種淡淡的哀愁吧！